To my colleagues... I have enjoyed our journey together.
Dr. D., thank-you for your insight and guidance.
Take care and I wish all of you the best!
Millie
Friday, April 20, 2012
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Some of My Favorite Quotes
" If a child learns to live with approval, he learns to live with
himself." Dorothy Law Nolte
" The highest form of wisdom is kindness." The Talmud
" Tell me and I forget. Show me and I remember. Involve me
and I understand." Chinese Proverb
" Children are like wet cement, what ever falls on them makes
an impression." Dr. Hiam Ginnot
" If a child learns to live with approval, he learns to live with
himself." Dorothy Law Nolte
" The highest form of wisdom is kindness." The Talmud
" Tell me and I forget. Show me and I remember. Involve me
and I understand." Chinese Proverb
" Children are like wet cement, what ever falls on them makes
an impression." Dr. Hiam Ginnot
Saturday, April 7, 2012
Assessments
One of the reasons that drew me to teach early childhood was the fact that we continually assess and look at the whole child. We as early childhood educators pride are selves in observing every aspect of a child's development.
I believe children's abilities go beyond how successful a child is at achieving good grades in core areas. I agree with Gardner's view on multiple intelligences. I think as educators we realize at children's young ages they often have specific areas that they excel in. That's not to say that as they grow these areas will not change or expand. I though think as learners, children carry with them a natural innate learning style and abilities. Our role as educators is to expound and help the children to discover their learning styles, and interests. How we assess these areas is something American schools need to expound on.
Within a six week period each child who enter's Kindergarten within the state of Ohio, is given an assessment called the KRAL. The Kindergarten Readiness Assessment for Literacy. This assessment's purpose is to conceptualize the child's pre reading skills.
In the state of Ohio, Children's skills are assessed each year from grades third through eighth. The tests are in the areas of Reading, Math, Science and Social Studies. The children's preparation for these tests are based on the schools curriculum. The curriculum as well as the assessments are aligned with the Ohio Department of Education's content standards.
It is apparent that these assessments look specifically at how a child is functioning within the academic core areas.
The United Kingdom
The United Kingdom has their educational system split into key stages.
Stage 1 is 5-7 year olds
Stage 2 is 7-11 year olds
Stage 3 is 11-14 year olds
Stage 4 is 14-16 year olds
The skills assessed are in the areas of Math, Science, Reading and Writing
At the end of every stage children's skills are assessed and evaluated. After Stage 1,2,3 the educators looks at the attained targets for learning and determine what the children's skills are. At the end of stage 4 the assessment the General Certificate of Secondary Education is given to determine what additional schooling the child will pursue. They can continue their last two years of education, in one of two ways, they can choose to take on Vocational Education or Type A course work. Type A level course work is academics specifically geared for individuals who want to go onto higher level of learning, college.
I believe children's abilities go beyond how successful a child is at achieving good grades in core areas. I agree with Gardner's view on multiple intelligences. I think as educators we realize at children's young ages they often have specific areas that they excel in. That's not to say that as they grow these areas will not change or expand. I though think as learners, children carry with them a natural innate learning style and abilities. Our role as educators is to expound and help the children to discover their learning styles, and interests. How we assess these areas is something American schools need to expound on.
Within a six week period each child who enter's Kindergarten within the state of Ohio, is given an assessment called the KRAL. The Kindergarten Readiness Assessment for Literacy. This assessment's purpose is to conceptualize the child's pre reading skills.
In the state of Ohio, Children's skills are assessed each year from grades third through eighth. The tests are in the areas of Reading, Math, Science and Social Studies. The children's preparation for these tests are based on the schools curriculum. The curriculum as well as the assessments are aligned with the Ohio Department of Education's content standards.
It is apparent that these assessments look specifically at how a child is functioning within the academic core areas.
The United Kingdom
The United Kingdom has their educational system split into key stages.
Stage 1 is 5-7 year olds
Stage 2 is 7-11 year olds
Stage 3 is 11-14 year olds
Stage 4 is 14-16 year olds
The skills assessed are in the areas of Math, Science, Reading and Writing
At the end of every stage children's skills are assessed and evaluated. After Stage 1,2,3 the educators looks at the attained targets for learning and determine what the children's skills are. At the end of stage 4 the assessment the General Certificate of Secondary Education is given to determine what additional schooling the child will pursue. They can continue their last two years of education, in one of two ways, they can choose to take on Vocational Education or Type A course work. Type A level course work is academics specifically geared for individuals who want to go onto higher level of learning, college.
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Poverty:
The classroom where I taught, was a collaboration of a special education program and a Head Start program. In order for those children to be eligible for Head Start services, their families income had to fall within the range of the poverty guidelines. So if we take an average size family with 4 people that means your income would be $22,350.00 or less (United States Department of Health & Human Services, 2011).
So, each day I witnessed children and families who were struggling financially. One family comes to mind. There were 2 young boys, a mother and a boyfriend. The youngest of boys we'll call Bryan. His older brother, Steven, had been in my class previously. Steven was a child who qualified for both Head Start and special education services. Steven had delays in language an fine motor skills. When he transitioned for Kindergarten he still qualified for special education services. Bryan on the other hand was smart as could be. Personable and communicative, and extremely creative. He craved stimulation.
He loved to be challenged, and he was an active participant.
Hygiene and Attendance: Effect Biophysical and Biosocial
Bryan often came to school in dirty clothes which were to small for him. He too appeared dirty and unkept. His hair was neither washed nor brushed. And I know his mom did not encourage him to brush his teeth. Occasionally, Bryan would not come to school for a 4 day period. When I called his mother, she did not answer the phone. Once he did return back to school, she would bring him to school, and tell us she had taken the kids for a mini-vacation.
Within our classroom, we followed Head Start guidelines and served meals. If you were a child who came in the morning, you ate breakfast and lunch. The afternoon children ate lunch and a snack.
So in what ways did Bryan living in poverty effect him. In what ways did I empower him:
* Bryan was usually starving when he arrived at school. He was the first child to sit down at the table.
He would eat very fast.
* We always encouraged him to slow down when he ate. I always made sure he had seconds. I too
often brought in an additional "healthy," adages to our breakfast meal; such as yogurt.
* Bryan's clothes were too small.
*I had a grab bag of extra clothes available for him. Though his classmates also knew they too could
use them. I worked hard at making him feel that it was no big deal. " You must be growing over-
night, because your clothes are getting too small." I often sent a note to families, (not Bryan's asking
for clothes donations.) I too always let him wear the clothes home. I let his mom know that he had
could keep any "new clothes." She was alright with this.
* Bryan was dirty.
* Mondays were tough. He looked like he had taken a bath or days.
*I had a wash cloth set up in the adult bathroom. I had taken him aside once and said, " Sometimes
we all forget to shower. So, if you are feeling like you want, you can wash up." On those dirty
days I would just give him a gentle nudge, and he and I would take a quick sponge bath.
* Teeth
* He often had bad breath.
* I would continually follow up with mom when it was time for a 6 month check up. Our health
department, offers cleanings. I always had extra tooth brushes and tooth paste, that I put in his
backpack for him to take home. We allowed children to brush their teeth after meals. ( My least
favorite Head Start rule). So eventually, Bryan knew he would always have a tooth brush at
his disposal.
Ways to challenge Bryan:
* Bryan was a child, who I called environmentally deprived. He tried too hard at school. He often
overcompensated, he was anxious about trying to learn as much as he could.
* I had to teach him to share, and to wait his turn. At his home, he was the smartest person in the
household. He almost had a six sense. For he understood his parameters at home. So he tried with
all of his might to work hard and absorb all he could while he was in school. At Christmas time
each year my office picked a family in need. Bryan and his family received donations. I created a
list of toys for my office. Ones which were of his interest and ones which challenged him.
His need to be Creative:
* Monthly, I sent home paper, markers, collage items. His mom gave me her permission. At our
conference, I asked if I could, and I showed her his unique works and explained how important
it is to foster his creative side.
* I believe this was one of Bryan's coping skills at home. His outlet, his escape.
Bryan's lead levels came back high. It was discovered that the house where they lived had lead paint.
He never ingested it, but it was effecting him. His family had to be uprooted and stayed with relatives.
The Head Start in home specialist, worked with his mom to get her into low income housing. During this period of time, Bryan seemed a bit withdrawn. Not really understanding what was happening. He though perked up after he was moved into his new house.
Overall, how was Bryan affected by his home life. Yes, he was hungry, dirty and over anxious. With time, he became very adaptable. He sensed that school was a safe place. He knew if he worked hard he would be ok. Within his house he was loved. His mom did try and support him. Though she dealt with her own personal challenges. I still check up on him. I have a teacher friend who sees him at the elementary school. She shares that he is doing very well. He still loves school. He plays on a local soccer recreation team.
When he graduated from my classroom, I remember shedding a few tears, he was a child who I hoped would fight his way out of poverty. I know that Head Start and my classroom had a positive impact on his life.
Bryan's biosocial, psychosocial and cognitive development was truly effected by how he lived. Initially, he came to school, craving cognitive stimulation. He played by himself, and he was needy, in every sense of the word. When other parents came to visit, he was often too affectionate and wanted to be the center of attention. Bryan did not understand social, behavioral parameters. (biosocial) Yes he was eager to please, yet at home, he was manipulative. He too had to learn life skills, and understand their importance. The home was unorganized and dirty. So at school we like the other children learned about cleaning up and taking care of our toys and ourselves. I provided social stories which focused on independence, self esteem and self control, and physical space and boundaries. Bryan gravitated towards and understood what he learned at school. I could not change Bryan's
home environment. But I tried to give him the tools to learn how to adapt and survive living with poverty.
Resources:
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. (2011). Federal Poverty Measures [Table]. Retrieved from the United States Department of Health & Human Services website: http://aspe.hhs.gov/poverty/11poverty.shtml
ATHENS COUNTY OHIO:
Athens county is located in south east ohio. I went to College and graduated from their over 25 years ago. When I went to college it was obvious then that Athens county children many of them lived in poverty. In 2010 Athens story of poverty was a story on Dateline. (Friends and Neighbors America Now on Dateline 2010). The poverty rates in Athens county are very dismal. 51.9% of the people live under poverty line. 20% are unemployed.
So, what is happening to make a difference. Communities are making donations in the form of food to local pantries. They have set up employment counselors, to help unemployed find jobs. Adults for Basic Literacy is teaching those to work on getting GEDs. Workforce Individual Act is also assisting people to find jobs and work. The individuals who receive food stamps are able to use them at the local Farmers Market. Job Fairs are being set up for veterans and those who are unemployed in the region. An organization, "Recovery Conservation Corps," is providing summer jobs.
* Note this segment on MSNBC is worth watching. I did not highlight all of the information as it was vast.
Anne Curry(2010, July 26). Friends and Neighbors [Television broadcast] (with Ann Curry). New York, N.Y.: National Broadcasting Company. Retrieved from the MSNB website: Neighbors(http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/38382773/ns/dateline_nbc-america-now/t/friends-neighbors/#.T25DwniEq9x
The classroom where I taught, was a collaboration of a special education program and a Head Start program. In order for those children to be eligible for Head Start services, their families income had to fall within the range of the poverty guidelines. So if we take an average size family with 4 people that means your income would be $22,350.00 or less (United States Department of Health & Human Services, 2011).
So, each day I witnessed children and families who were struggling financially. One family comes to mind. There were 2 young boys, a mother and a boyfriend. The youngest of boys we'll call Bryan. His older brother, Steven, had been in my class previously. Steven was a child who qualified for both Head Start and special education services. Steven had delays in language an fine motor skills. When he transitioned for Kindergarten he still qualified for special education services. Bryan on the other hand was smart as could be. Personable and communicative, and extremely creative. He craved stimulation.
He loved to be challenged, and he was an active participant.
Hygiene and Attendance: Effect Biophysical and Biosocial
Bryan often came to school in dirty clothes which were to small for him. He too appeared dirty and unkept. His hair was neither washed nor brushed. And I know his mom did not encourage him to brush his teeth. Occasionally, Bryan would not come to school for a 4 day period. When I called his mother, she did not answer the phone. Once he did return back to school, she would bring him to school, and tell us she had taken the kids for a mini-vacation.
Within our classroom, we followed Head Start guidelines and served meals. If you were a child who came in the morning, you ate breakfast and lunch. The afternoon children ate lunch and a snack.
So in what ways did Bryan living in poverty effect him. In what ways did I empower him:
* Bryan was usually starving when he arrived at school. He was the first child to sit down at the table.
He would eat very fast.
* We always encouraged him to slow down when he ate. I always made sure he had seconds. I too
often brought in an additional "healthy," adages to our breakfast meal; such as yogurt.
* Bryan's clothes were too small.
*I had a grab bag of extra clothes available for him. Though his classmates also knew they too could
use them. I worked hard at making him feel that it was no big deal. " You must be growing over-
night, because your clothes are getting too small." I often sent a note to families, (not Bryan's asking
for clothes donations.) I too always let him wear the clothes home. I let his mom know that he had
could keep any "new clothes." She was alright with this.
* Bryan was dirty.
* Mondays were tough. He looked like he had taken a bath or days.
*I had a wash cloth set up in the adult bathroom. I had taken him aside once and said, " Sometimes
we all forget to shower. So, if you are feeling like you want, you can wash up." On those dirty
days I would just give him a gentle nudge, and he and I would take a quick sponge bath.
* Teeth
* He often had bad breath.
* I would continually follow up with mom when it was time for a 6 month check up. Our health
department, offers cleanings. I always had extra tooth brushes and tooth paste, that I put in his
backpack for him to take home. We allowed children to brush their teeth after meals. ( My least
favorite Head Start rule). So eventually, Bryan knew he would always have a tooth brush at
his disposal.
Ways to challenge Bryan:
* Bryan was a child, who I called environmentally deprived. He tried too hard at school. He often
overcompensated, he was anxious about trying to learn as much as he could.
* I had to teach him to share, and to wait his turn. At his home, he was the smartest person in the
household. He almost had a six sense. For he understood his parameters at home. So he tried with
all of his might to work hard and absorb all he could while he was in school. At Christmas time
each year my office picked a family in need. Bryan and his family received donations. I created a
list of toys for my office. Ones which were of his interest and ones which challenged him.
His need to be Creative:
* Monthly, I sent home paper, markers, collage items. His mom gave me her permission. At our
conference, I asked if I could, and I showed her his unique works and explained how important
it is to foster his creative side.
* I believe this was one of Bryan's coping skills at home. His outlet, his escape.
Bryan's lead levels came back high. It was discovered that the house where they lived had lead paint.
He never ingested it, but it was effecting him. His family had to be uprooted and stayed with relatives.
The Head Start in home specialist, worked with his mom to get her into low income housing. During this period of time, Bryan seemed a bit withdrawn. Not really understanding what was happening. He though perked up after he was moved into his new house.
Overall, how was Bryan affected by his home life. Yes, he was hungry, dirty and over anxious. With time, he became very adaptable. He sensed that school was a safe place. He knew if he worked hard he would be ok. Within his house he was loved. His mom did try and support him. Though she dealt with her own personal challenges. I still check up on him. I have a teacher friend who sees him at the elementary school. She shares that he is doing very well. He still loves school. He plays on a local soccer recreation team.
When he graduated from my classroom, I remember shedding a few tears, he was a child who I hoped would fight his way out of poverty. I know that Head Start and my classroom had a positive impact on his life.
Bryan's biosocial, psychosocial and cognitive development was truly effected by how he lived. Initially, he came to school, craving cognitive stimulation. He played by himself, and he was needy, in every sense of the word. When other parents came to visit, he was often too affectionate and wanted to be the center of attention. Bryan did not understand social, behavioral parameters. (biosocial) Yes he was eager to please, yet at home, he was manipulative. He too had to learn life skills, and understand their importance. The home was unorganized and dirty. So at school we like the other children learned about cleaning up and taking care of our toys and ourselves. I provided social stories which focused on independence, self esteem and self control, and physical space and boundaries. Bryan gravitated towards and understood what he learned at school. I could not change Bryan's
home environment. But I tried to give him the tools to learn how to adapt and survive living with poverty.
Resources:
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. (2011). Federal Poverty Measures [Table]. Retrieved from the United States Department of Health & Human Services website: http://aspe.hhs.gov/poverty/11poverty.shtml
ATHENS COUNTY OHIO:
Athens county is located in south east ohio. I went to College and graduated from their over 25 years ago. When I went to college it was obvious then that Athens county children many of them lived in poverty. In 2010 Athens story of poverty was a story on Dateline. (Friends and Neighbors America Now on Dateline 2010). The poverty rates in Athens county are very dismal. 51.9% of the people live under poverty line. 20% are unemployed.
So, what is happening to make a difference. Communities are making donations in the form of food to local pantries. They have set up employment counselors, to help unemployed find jobs. Adults for Basic Literacy is teaching those to work on getting GEDs. Workforce Individual Act is also assisting people to find jobs and work. The individuals who receive food stamps are able to use them at the local Farmers Market. Job Fairs are being set up for veterans and those who are unemployed in the region. An organization, "Recovery Conservation Corps," is providing summer jobs.
* Note this segment on MSNBC is worth watching. I did not highlight all of the information as it was vast.
Anne Curry(2010, July 26). Friends and Neighbors [Television broadcast] (with Ann Curry). New York, N.Y.: National Broadcasting Company. Retrieved from the MSNB website: Neighbors(http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/38382773/ns/dateline_nbc-america-now/t/friends-neighbors/#.T25DwniEq9x
Saturday, March 10, 2012
Immunizations
Immunizations:
As a mother and a teacher this topic is very important to me. I have always been aware since I was little
of the importance of children being vaccinated. When my mom was pregnant with my older brother, she was exposed to German measles. Soon after my brother was born, he died due to a heart defect. I remember my Dad telling me the story. At the age of 7, I knew how important it was to be immunized, it was very real to me.
As a young child too I remember standing inline at my elementary school, waiting to be immunized against measles. I was terrified, I hated the thought of getting a shot in front of my peers. But as I stood there thinking.... this shot could save my life.
Ever since then I have always be intrigued and amazed that we are being vaccinated with the same virus/ antigens which cause the diseases. Once injected those antigens produce the antibodies to fight off the disease. Organizations like Unicef and the World Health Organization are trying hard to reach the poorest of countries to have all people immunized. These organizations are creating systems that train people, so once trained they can administer the vaccinations. I chose to look at the statistics of people immunized in the country of Uganda. In 2010, Uganda's statistics of individuals being immunized looks like this. (Task force for World Health).
The vaccines % of Uganda people % of Americans
BCG 84% 99%
DTP1 83% 95%
DTP3 60% 95%
HepB3 60% 93%
MCV (measles) 55% 92%
In Uganda 35% of the people live below poverty. It is one of the poorest countries in the world.
In response to the challenges in global immunization the World Health Organization and Unicef developed the Global Immunization Vision and Strategy (GIVS). Launched in 2006, GIVS is the first ever ten year Framework aimed at controlling mortality and morbidity from vaccine-preventable diseases and helping countries to immunize more people from infants to seniors with a greater range of vaccines.
(World Health Organization Global Immunization Vision and Strategy)
The importance of immunizations will always be within my reach as long as I work with young children and families. I know that we as educators need to never let this topic out of our sights. It is essential that the children of the world, continue to be given every opportunity to live a healthy life. And one of the keys components of world's health is making sure that all people are immunized against diseases.
A Side Note: The reason I chose Uganda is primarily based on the fact that my children brought to my attention aa U-tube video. It is called KONY 2012. It is a 27 minute film about a campaign by Invisible Children that aims to make Joseph Kony (He is a warlord in Uganda. He is number one on the world's most wanted list). The film and campaign is by Invisible Children. This video aims to make Joseph Kony Famous, not to celebrate him, but to raise support for his arrest. If you have a chance the video is amazing, and well worth watching.
Resources
World Health Organization:
http://ww.who.int/en
Task Force for World Health
http://www.taskforce.org/our-work/projects/uganda-immunization-training-program
Millie
As a mother and a teacher this topic is very important to me. I have always been aware since I was little
of the importance of children being vaccinated. When my mom was pregnant with my older brother, she was exposed to German measles. Soon after my brother was born, he died due to a heart defect. I remember my Dad telling me the story. At the age of 7, I knew how important it was to be immunized, it was very real to me.
As a young child too I remember standing inline at my elementary school, waiting to be immunized against measles. I was terrified, I hated the thought of getting a shot in front of my peers. But as I stood there thinking.... this shot could save my life.
Ever since then I have always be intrigued and amazed that we are being vaccinated with the same virus/ antigens which cause the diseases. Once injected those antigens produce the antibodies to fight off the disease. Organizations like Unicef and the World Health Organization are trying hard to reach the poorest of countries to have all people immunized. These organizations are creating systems that train people, so once trained they can administer the vaccinations. I chose to look at the statistics of people immunized in the country of Uganda. In 2010, Uganda's statistics of individuals being immunized looks like this. (Task force for World Health).
The vaccines % of Uganda people % of Americans
BCG 84% 99%
DTP1 83% 95%
DTP3 60% 95%
HepB3 60% 93%
MCV (measles) 55% 92%
In Uganda 35% of the people live below poverty. It is one of the poorest countries in the world.
In response to the challenges in global immunization the World Health Organization and Unicef developed the Global Immunization Vision and Strategy (GIVS). Launched in 2006, GIVS is the first ever ten year Framework aimed at controlling mortality and morbidity from vaccine-preventable diseases and helping countries to immunize more people from infants to seniors with a greater range of vaccines.
(World Health Organization Global Immunization Vision and Strategy)
The importance of immunizations will always be within my reach as long as I work with young children and families. I know that we as educators need to never let this topic out of our sights. It is essential that the children of the world, continue to be given every opportunity to live a healthy life. And one of the keys components of world's health is making sure that all people are immunized against diseases.
A Side Note: The reason I chose Uganda is primarily based on the fact that my children brought to my attention aa U-tube video. It is called KONY 2012. It is a 27 minute film about a campaign by Invisible Children that aims to make Joseph Kony (He is a warlord in Uganda. He is number one on the world's most wanted list). The film and campaign is by Invisible Children. This video aims to make Joseph Kony Famous, not to celebrate him, but to raise support for his arrest. If you have a chance the video is amazing, and well worth watching.
Resources
World Health Organization:
http://ww.who.int/en
Task Force for World Health
http://www.taskforce.org/our-work/projects/uganda-immunization-training-program
Millie
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Lindley Brooke
Lindley Brooke:
The birth of my first child Lindley. (She is the first of my four children).
During the end of my pregnancy with Lindley, I found myself asking my physician, "Is it normal to gain this much weight?" Pre-pregnancy, I was 5'0 and did not weigh barely 100 lbs. At the end of the pregnancy, I had gained 34lbs. Added another 3rd to my body weight. But I didn't care. I loved looking like I was carrying a watermelon...
The evening I went into labor; I lost my mucous plug and my water broke. I spent several hours at home, with Lindley's very nervous father. He threw up three times before we even left for the hospital. We arrived at the hospital, excited and nervous. We knew that Lindley was going to be a girl, we had picked out her name, and had the nursery already for her arrival. At the hospital, Eric and I spent the day, trying to move things along. Dancing moving walking.... but Lindley took her good old sweet time! I was given the usual drugs, pitocin, some other one I don't remember the name, and an epidural. Eric swears I was hallucinating through out the middle of my labor, caused from the medication (the medication with which name I forget).
During delivery, Lindley had to be vacummed out, A hook was placed in the top of her forehead. Finally 22 hours later, and 2 hours of hard labor, Lindley arrived, 8 lbs 4 oz, and 22 and 1/2 inches long. She was beautiful.
Eric, Lindley's dad, had been adopted a week after his own birth. For him, Lindely was...... his first real blood relative. After he cut the embilical cord, Eric reached down, and touched her. He said, he had never experienced any thing like it. For him it was his first ever feeling of being truly connected to another person. For me, I was amazed at how different I felt. My world had changed miraculously. Oh what a high! It was truly amazing, no words can describe it.
Lindley's apgars were within normal range. I spent a day in the hospital.
Lindley's birth was monumental. She was my first born. Lindley's birth definitely had an impact on her development. After taking Lindley home, I soon realized she had low muscle tone. One pediatrician wanted to run every test in the world. She stated she may have a disability. Come on, I knew that she was not disabled. My knowledge lead us to a physiatrist. She diagnosed Lindley with Hypotonia. This has never stopped Lindley. She wore orthotics to strengthen her ankles and help support her, and help her to walk.
The birth of my first child Lindley. (She is the first of my four children).
During the end of my pregnancy with Lindley, I found myself asking my physician, "Is it normal to gain this much weight?" Pre-pregnancy, I was 5'0 and did not weigh barely 100 lbs. At the end of the pregnancy, I had gained 34lbs. Added another 3rd to my body weight. But I didn't care. I loved looking like I was carrying a watermelon...
The evening I went into labor; I lost my mucous plug and my water broke. I spent several hours at home, with Lindley's very nervous father. He threw up three times before we even left for the hospital. We arrived at the hospital, excited and nervous. We knew that Lindley was going to be a girl, we had picked out her name, and had the nursery already for her arrival. At the hospital, Eric and I spent the day, trying to move things along. Dancing moving walking.... but Lindley took her good old sweet time! I was given the usual drugs, pitocin, some other one I don't remember the name, and an epidural. Eric swears I was hallucinating through out the middle of my labor, caused from the medication (the medication with which name I forget).
During delivery, Lindley had to be vacummed out, A hook was placed in the top of her forehead. Finally 22 hours later, and 2 hours of hard labor, Lindley arrived, 8 lbs 4 oz, and 22 and 1/2 inches long. She was beautiful.
Eric, Lindley's dad, had been adopted a week after his own birth. For him, Lindely was...... his first real blood relative. After he cut the embilical cord, Eric reached down, and touched her. He said, he had never experienced any thing like it. For him it was his first ever feeling of being truly connected to another person. For me, I was amazed at how different I felt. My world had changed miraculously. Oh what a high! It was truly amazing, no words can describe it.
Lindley's apgars were within normal range. I spent a day in the hospital.
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| Moments old! |
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| Bright Eyed and Beautiful |
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| Proud parents! |
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| The weigh in! |
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| Lindley and her siblings Lindley is on far right! |
Did the medications I was given during Lindley's birth and my long labor did they affect her muscle tone?I am not sure. But I do know that her hypotonia did impact her development. She kinda always fought gravity... Lindley did not let any of this stop her. She did gymnastics and swam on a swim team. Lindley knows as an adult that some physical things don't come easily to her. But she maintains a healthy lifestyle by working out 5 times a week, and eating healthy. To me she is still beautiful and bright eyed!
We know that the birth experience can impact a child's development. In relationship to the term of the pregnancy, complications that can occur, (example lack of oxygen to the baby). qq
Ensure a Safe Birth for Mother's in the West Bank:
In the West Bank of Israel, a grassroots group of Palestinian and Israeli midwifes are meeting. There goal is to ensure the safety and health of newborns and their mothers. The midwifes for peace enables Palestinian women who are in labor to deliver safely despite Israeli military roadblocks and checkpoints that prevent or dangerously delay them from reaching hospitals in the West Bank. The site states that certified, well equipped midwives help ensure healthy births. The midwifes are provided kits to help ensure the healthy delivery.
I wrote about this story, in relationship to how different most of our American life birth experiences are. Delivering my four children had its shares of small issues. But when I read about these women living in the west bank of Israel, I was saddened. I cannot even imagine how stressful their lives are. Non the less how they deal with prenatal care and the actual birth of their child. I am Jewish. I have always been torn. For I view myself as a humanitarian. I feel for the anguish for families of all cultures living in Israel. I read about these midwifes several months ago and their efforts. I cannot imagine trying to get to a hospital to deliver my child, and being attacked by enemy fire. Something to think about?
We know that the birth experience can impact a child's development. In relationship to the term of the pregnancy, complications that can occur, (example lack of oxygen to the baby). qq
Ensure a Safe Birth for Mother's in the West Bank:
In the West Bank of Israel, a grassroots group of Palestinian and Israeli midwifes are meeting. There goal is to ensure the safety and health of newborns and their mothers. The midwifes for peace enables Palestinian women who are in labor to deliver safely despite Israeli military roadblocks and checkpoints that prevent or dangerously delay them from reaching hospitals in the West Bank. The site states that certified, well equipped midwives help ensure healthy births. The midwifes are provided kits to help ensure the healthy delivery.
I wrote about this story, in relationship to how different most of our American life birth experiences are. Delivering my four children had its shares of small issues. But when I read about these women living in the west bank of Israel, I was saddened. I cannot even imagine how stressful their lives are. Non the less how they deal with prenatal care and the actual birth of their child. I am Jewish. I have always been torn. For I view myself as a humanitarian. I feel for the anguish for families of all cultures living in Israel. I read about these midwifes several months ago and their efforts. I cannot imagine trying to get to a hospital to deliver my child, and being attacked by enemy fire. Something to think about?
Saturday, February 25, 2012
To all of my colleagues...
I want to say this class has been a great experience...We have had the great fortune to share our journey on our professional path together. You have enriched my life by providing me with great advice, support and of above all great models of professionalism. I offer my thanks to each of you. If this is where our journey ends, then I wish you luck. If you are continuing the Masters program, and we still continue to walk along the path together, then I know that I consider myself lucky!!!
Take care!!!
Affectionately,
Millie
I want to say this class has been a great experience...We have had the great fortune to share our journey on our professional path together. You have enriched my life by providing me with great advice, support and of above all great models of professionalism. I offer my thanks to each of you. If this is where our journey ends, then I wish you luck. If you are continuing the Masters program, and we still continue to walk along the path together, then I know that I consider myself lucky!!!
Take care!!!
Affectionately,
Millie
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