Saturday, May 12, 2012

Relationship Reflection

                                       RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION

I believe the relationships within my life empower me and help me to define the person I am. These individuals challenge me, love me and provide the support I may need. I in turn love and support them. I have close friends, my children, and a significant other, who each day make me laugh, and make me cry.... Within all of these relationships, there are many common threads which bind us too one another. We share experiences, interests, culture, and knowledge, and even hardships. In order for these relationships to flourish, they need to be based on trust and respect, as well as a reciprocal sense of communication. I believe these entities are the foundations for all great and important relationships. Within each of these relationships there is a place for continued learning and growth. They are never stagnant. Most of my relationships are intertwined and connected. I feel lucky to have wonderful relationships with my close friends, family and significant other. I feel they are everlasting.
                                                                    My Kids

My kids: Alix; 20, Lindley; 22, Avery ;16, Chandler; 18.

I have four beautiful children. My children are all at different stages within their own lives. As they have grown and have become young adults our relationship has changed. Their well being was always at the forefront of my concerns. But as they have become older and are spreading their own wings, they require less from me. They though still need my guidance and love..... and I in turn need theirs.


                                                          My Significant Other


Akumal Mexico Mayan Ruins
Funny how life can take some unique twists and turns.  I had gone through a tough divorce and had sworn off a lasting relationship with a man. Then I met Greg. He and I immediately hit it off. We have so much fun together. Our relationship is strong and sound. We share common interests and morals and values. He has helped me to open myself up to new adventures and life possibilities while at the same time helping me to learn to quiet my mind. We relish the time we spend with one another. This is a relationship I am excited to say is still evolving.

5 comments:

  1. I really enjoy reading your blog. Nice kids you have, lovely family, and I believe that a lovely environment makes us to be a wonderful person too.

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  2. DiahPutri Pramiandari,
    Those are incredibly thoughtful words. I so appreciate your kindness. The kids are great, though raising four primarily by myself has been at times a challenge. My hope is they will grow to be confident adults, who will continue to grow, and participate in healthy respectful relationships,

    Thank-you, again
    Millie

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  3. Your story is one of inspirataton. it is often that when people think life has given them everything they can handle, a new chapter opens up. You seem to have a fortunate life. You should cherish every day. Be thankful.
    Lisa

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    1. Lisa,
      I appreciate your sentiments. I shall cherish your thoughts as well!

      Take care,
      Millie

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  4. The way you expressed how important relationships are to you was incredible. I loved what you said and felt every word. I enjoyed how you described the change in relationship of your children. They are very lucky children (adults). :)

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